Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Do parents allow you to wear make-up ? I may only wear clear lip gloss !?

i'm 14 and I am always being told by mom that even this lip gloss I'm using is toooo much for my age ! i am not allowed to wear anything else !Do parents allow you to wear make-up ? I may only wear clear lip gloss !?
You explain that they have sunblock in them to protect your skin from the harmful UV rays %26amp; that it is only to protect your skin from damage and your life cause of skin cancer dangers and all ;)Do parents allow you to wear make-up ? I may only wear clear lip gloss !?
I'm thirteen and my mom likes me to wear lipgloss and a little eyeliner to highlight my eye. But in weddings she allows me to wear heavy face make up. She tells me that she doesn't allow me to wear heavy face make up on a daily basis because she doesn't want me to look like a flirt and attract too much attention. Also, she says she doesn't want to hide the natural beauty my face has.
my parents started letting me wear makeup starting in middle school or something ... though i never really wore it until high school ... but i mean ... i know parents who don't let their kids paint their nails or wear lipstick or wear anything but stud earrings ... i guess that back in the ....40's? who knows ... those kinds of things were considered risque so ... i mean, i am guessing your parents were just taught these kinds of things by their parents. it's not a big deal , people look funny with too much makeup anyway :) just wait it out lol
I think you should tell your parents how you feel, dont wear loads and loads of makeup but say that you would just like to wear a little bit so it still looks natural, for example a bit of foundation, light eyeshadow and mascara x
I was allowed to wear make up when I was 14, but I could never be bothered with it until I was well into my late teens, lol!





Your mum has make-up though, right? And if you have a little make up of your own, then you can always suggest giving your mum a make-over where you and your mum sit together and have a laugh painting each other up.





Its because she's your mum, and she still sees you as being her little girl. She loves you very much and could be worrying about you growing up. Thats kind of what my mum went through when I started going out with my friends more, buying my own clothes, etc when I was your age.





If this doesnt' relax your mum about your wearing make up (and I know that this might not go down very well!!) I had a friend whose mum used to stop her wearing make up. so, before going out, she'd put her make up in her bag, come over to my house, put it on and then we;d go out. Then, before going home, she'd come back to mine again and use make-up remover wipes to take it off. (Her mum or dad would then drive to my house and collect her, and be totally none the wiser that she'd gone out wearing make up.)





I'd first advise though, talk to your mum and even suggest a mad girly afternoon where you do each other's make up for fun. It might lighten her up a little.
just talk to your mom about getting zome really natural stuff so it doesnt look harsh--like some light browns, maybe nude pinks for eyeshadow--and comprimise with her on the eyeliner--my mom will let me where any color of eyeliner i want, but i had to start with just browns and natural eyeliner colors (no black, purple, green, aqua) and i could only apply it to the top lash line
My daughter is now 17. I let her start wearing makup when she was 13. I showed her how to apply it and made sure she didn't wear alot. The way she wears it now, you can't even tell she has any on. Good luck with your mom but consider that your mother probably thinks that you don't need makeup...that you have a natural beauty.
I was in the same predicament, ask your mom if you could go shopping and possibly pick out some natural makeup together. If she doesn't go for that slowly add more makeup each day, one day some mascara, a few weeks later some eyeshadow. But if your mom it the type that will flipp out and ground you point out that you are going into, or are already in highschool and you think you can make your own makeup and wardrobe descisions...That one worked for me, sure i ended up doing my own laundrey to show that i was mature enough, But do whatever it takes
i'm alowed to wear any kind of makeup


accept for:


eyeliner


mascara
what thats crazy i wear make up i love it the key is to not wear too much..
You should'nt wear makeup until you graduate from high school. You don't need it.
sounds like you are in a hurry to grow up enjoy your childhood years. You probably don't need makeup that probably what your mom is saying/
My mom didn't allow me to wear make up until I was 16. Though now I am a mom with a step daughter who knew nothing about make up I taught her at 15 how to wear make-up in the lightest touches to look natural. If your mom wears make up may be you might want to try and ask her to teach you to wear a little like she does. If you copy her way she may add a little more to your lip gloss, not to encourage you too much I believe 14 is young for make up but I also taught my neices at your age at their mothers request and approval. You have nothing to lose except having to weight another year or two. Good luck =) J
hi! i too am 14. i am not allowed to overdo the makeup. my mom allows me to put lipgloss, foundation and even hair removing creams. u shld tell ur mom that lipgloss cannot harm in anyway and it is the latest trend. all the best.
I started wearing all types of make up when I was 11
I have a step daughter who is 13 years old, ad that is all she wears. More than that is to much for your age. I made the mistake of wearing make up that young, and I look back and regret it. Trust me you have plenty of make up applying days ahead of you!
just be patient she'll let you add a few things slowly, just try adding soft neutral colors, or better yet ask her if she can take you to a place that give's free make-overs then she can see it from a professional point of view, and she'll feel like she is having a say in it, there is a proper way for 14 year old girls to apply make-up and it's best to learn from a professional, if you go buy what magazines look like you would look like a clown, you can get a free make-over at any department store, merle normal or have a mary kay party, and just remember to include your mother in the process, let her feel important in the decision making ok?
sneak some on at school then rub it all of it off before you leave.


i've done it before.
Dude thats gay. Im 14 and i can wear make. I think your mom just loves you and wants you to be her little girl. You should sit down and talk to her and tell her she is being ridiculas and that you wont grow up to fast. Just you should be able to the right of wearing a little more make up. Maybe she will understand. Good Luck
I started wearing makeup when I was 14... I was aloud to have a covergirl compact (pressed powder) and bonnie bell lip gloss.





I think my parents were right in only allowing me to wear that. Once you get into Jr. High then more makeup should be allowed.
don't worry its only a phase that your mom is going thru eventually when u get older that will go away
I think lipgloss is fine for 14 year olds.


However, I don't think you should start wearing other cosmetics until you're at least 16... and even then, don't over do it.
When I was this age( I'm 17 now) I was allowed to wear makeup. This was my 8th grade year, which would have found me wearing gloss, blush, mascara, eyeliner and powder. Now, I realize I was fortunate enough to have no bad days, since I applied it lightly- a point you may way to emphasize to your mother. Makeup is usually about how much you apply, not how many products. Now, even though I'm older, I don't wear much more-concealer and curling my eyelashes, on top of what I wore in 8th grade, but it is enough, nonetheless. Ask your mother if you may wear a little blush, curl your eyelashes, wear clear mascara, and some eyeshadow. It will give you polish without being obvious, which is what your mom seems to fear. Good luck! ;.)
YES AND I'M A YEAR YOUNGER!
my mom encourages me to wear a much make-up as possible,i think shes trying to tell me something, lol!
go to a makeup counter at a department store or sephora with your mother and show her how you intend to wear your makeup


keep it light and use browns instead of blacks and it is realy unnessisary to use alot of foundation try a tinted moustriser.


you can buy simular makeup at the drugstore once you know what works for you and what your mom approves of
I'm 11 and I am allowed to wear clear mascara and lipgloss, and if I have a zit I'm allowed to wear concealer. I couldn't want or need anymore.


You don't need tinted lipgloss, because you're too young to need it-- teens and kids have naturally rosy lips and cheeks so you wouldn't need lipstick or blush...


Your mom probably doesn't want you to wear makeup that you don't need, because it cost more and is an unnessicary waste of time.


I must say it's a little overrated that you can't wear a little bit of clear mascara-- clear mascara doesn't run underneath your eyes and make you look goth and it's natural.


Talk to your mom and ask for just basic makeup.


You can tell her her it makes you happier and feel better, etc. (if that's true). Take your mom to Target or something into the makeup aisle and show her a piece of makeup that you would like to wear. Don't just say, ';Mom, I want to wear eyeliner, mascara, eyeshadow, blush...'; Tell her one at a time, over time.


Hope this helps,


Charlotte
when i was 14 i was allowed to wear it only when going out wit my friends...not in school....


so rather dont fight wit them abt this,cuz they'll always find the way to prove that they r right!!
Yeah the lipgloss thing is weird.


I know a girl whose parents dont let her paint her nails or wear any kind of makeup or face product including lip balm. She cant even wear her hair in certain ways. Shes 16.





People have it worse.





Try talking to your parents, tell your mom that you wont over do it and you'll be careful and not get an infection or share with others.





Or, just get over it.
why would you want to wear make-up. it will only clogged your pores and your face will be prone to acne. let your natural beauty shine. you don't want to look all made-up. you want others to see the real you. which would be your natural looks, so don't take it to hard that you can't wear make-up. it's a good thing ok.
my mom says i usually put TOO LITTLE makeup on..i just use clear mascara and chapstick though...

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